Siyakuhalalisela!Ingane yakho ihlanganisa iminyaka emibili futhi manje awusekho ngokusemthethweni endaweni yengane.Yini oyithengela ingane encane (cishe) enakho konke?Ingabe ufuna umbono wesipho noma umane ufuna ukwazi ukuthi yiziphi izinzuzo ezikhona kumathoyizi athile?Sithole amathoyizi angcono kakhulu wezingane ezineminyaka emibili ubudala.
Imaphi amathoyizi angcono kakhulu wezingane ezineminyaka emibili?
Ngezibili, cishe uzobona ukuthi ingane yakho isiqine kakhulu.Kodwa-ke, ungathola ukuthi bavame ukuhlukaniswa phakathi kokufuna ukwenza izinto ngokuzimela futhi badinga usizo lwakho.
Yaboamakhono olimibayathuthuka, futhi bangakwazi ngempela ukwazisa abakudingayo nezidingo zabo, bekhuluma ngemisho elula.Nabo sebethuthukile kancaneumcabangofuthi bangakha izithombe ezingqondweni zabo.Ungase ufune ukutshala imali kwamanye amathoyizi okufundisa noma amathoyizi okufunda.Lokhu kuzosiza i-tot yakho ithuthukise ukuzethemba nobuhlakani.
Ungakhetha kanjani amathoyizi angcono kakhulu?
Ngokusho kukachwepheshe wokuthuthukiswa kwezingane, uDkt Amanda Gummer we-Good Play Guide, amathoyizi awusizo kakhulu ekukhuleni kwezingane ezisacathula.I-Good Play Guide iyiqembu lochwepheshe abanothando abacwaninga, bahlole futhi babelane ngolwazi lwabo mayelana namathoyizi adumile emakethe, bakhethe amathoyizi angcono kakhulu mayelana nokuthuthukiswa kwengane.
“Amathoyizi anemisebenzi emibili esemqoka yezingane ezincane.Ukukhuthaza ingane nokuzikhuthaza ukuba zidlale futhi zihlole indawo ezizungezile kanye nokuthuthukisa amakhono afana namakhono amahle emisipha, ukugxilisa ingqondo nokuxhumana.Futhi, ukwenza abantu abadala abaseduze nengane badlale kakhudlwana futhi okungenzeka bahlanganyele kahle nengane encane.Lokhu kuthuthukisa nokuthuthuka okunempilo, ngaleyo ndlela kuqinisa ukunamathelana.”
Mayelana nohlobo olungcono kakhulu lwamathoyizi lokuthenga ingane eneminyaka emibili ubudala, uDkt Amanda ucabanga ukuthi imidlalo ingane encane engayidlala ngayodwana futhi nezinye izingane iyona engcono kakhulu.“Izingane ziyasuka ekudlaleni nezinye izingane zingadlali nazo.Lokhu kungasho ukuncintisana nabo noma ukusebenzisana nabo.Ngakho-ke, amasethi okudlala abangadlala ngawo bebodwa futhi nabangane mihle, kanjalo nemidlalo yebhodi elula namathoyizi akhulisa ukuzethemba kwezingane ngezinombolo nezinhlamvu kuhle ukwethula kule minyaka,” kusho uDkt Amanda.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Jun-05-2023
