Ingabe uwuhlobo lomuntu ohlale ebanda?Noma ngabe yini ongeke uyibone ukufudumala.Ngakho uchitha isikhathi esiningi usonge ngezingubo zokulala noma ugqoke amasokisi.Kungase kube uhlobo olucasulayo, kodwa sifunda ukubhekana nakho njengabantu abadala.Kodwa uma kuyingane yakho, ngokwemvelo uzokhathazeka ngayo.Uma izinyawo zengane yakho zihlala zibanda, ungesabi.Kaningi kunalokho, akuyona into ongazikhathaza ngayo.Kunjalo, kusathusa, kodwa empeleni kulula kakhulu ukusebenza ngakho.

Uma izinyawo zengane yakho zibanda, cishe njalo kuhlobene nokujikeleza kwegazi.Kodwa akuyona into ehlala iyimbangela yokukhathazeka.Izingane ezincane zisakhula.Futhi lokho akusho nje izinto ongazibona.Isimiso sabo sokujikeleza kwegazi sisakhula futhi siyathuthuka.Njengoba ikhula, kuthatha isikhathi esithe xaxa ukusebenza.Ngokuvamile, lokho kusho ukuthi imikhawulo yabo, njengezandla nezinyawo zabo ezincane zizobanda.Kuthatha isikhathi eside ukuthi igazi lifike lapho.Kungenzeka ukuthi akukho okubi nakakhulu ngabo.Kodwa-ke, lokho akukwenzi kube nzima kangako.Sisengabazali abakhathazekile.

Ngokwesihloko esivela ku-Parents, “Kungase kuthathe izinyanga ezintathu ukuba ukujikeleza kwegazi kuzivumelanise ngokuphelele nokuphila ngaphandle kwesibeletho.”Ngokuqinisekile, lokho kuyinto esingasoze sayicabangela.Baqhubeka bengeza ukuthi inqobo nje uma i-torso yengane yakho ifudumele, balungile.Ngakho-ke uma uke ukhathazeke ngezinyawo zabo ezibandayo, khona-ke ukuhlola okusheshayo kwesisu sabo esincane esihle kuzoba inkomba enhle.

KODWA KUTHIWANI UMA INYAWO ZABO ZIPHENDUKE BUSOMI?

Nalapha, amathuba okuthi noma yini engalungile kakhulu akhona, kodwa mancane amathuba.Konke kuxhumene kakhulu nesistimu yokujikeleza kwegazi.Abazali bayaphawula, “igazi likhishwa kaningi liye ezithweni nasezimisweni ezibalulekile, lapho lidingeka khona kakhulu.Izandla nezinyawo zakhe ziyizitho zokugcina zokuthola igazi elikahle.”Ukubambezeleka kungabangela ngokuphelele izinyawo zabo zibe nsomi.Uma izinyawo zabo ziba nsomi nokho, kufanelekile ukuhlola ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi akukho lutho olusongelwe ezinzwaneni noma emaqakaleni, njengoboya, isongo noma intambo exegayo.Lokho kuzonqamula ukujikeleza kwegazi, futhi uma kungabanjwa kungenza umonakalo ohlala njalo.

Esihlokweni esivela ku-Romper, uDaniel Ganjian, MD uchaza ukuthi izinyawo ezinsomi aziyona inkomba yodwa yenkinga enkulu.“Inqobo nje uma ingane ingekho luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma ingabandi kwezinye izindawo” njengobuso, izindebe, ulimi, isifuba — khona-ke izinyawo ezibandayo azinangozi nhlobo," echaza.Uma ingane iluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma ibanda kulezo ezinye izindawo, kungaba inkomba yokusebenza kwenhliziyo noma yamaphaphu, noma mhlawumbe ingane ayiwutholi umoya-mpilo owanele.Ngakho-ke, uma kwenzeka lokho kwenzeka, ziyise kudokotela ngokuphelele.

OKUNYE, AKUKUNINGI OKUNGEYENZA

Uma izinyawo zengane zihlala zibanda, zama ukugcina amasokisi kuzo.Kulula ukukusho kunokukwenza kunjalo.Kodwa njengoba sezisebenza kakhulu, ukujikeleza kwazo kuzoqala ukuba ngcono futhi ngeke usakhathazeka.